my life as the HOH

my life as the HOH started last year, at that time my beautiful submissive wife was my fiance. She came to me with the idea and it sparked my curiousity, i have always had a controlling side so it was a good step. It's tough being dominant over my wife because after almost seven years together she was used to doing whatever she wanted. After a year we still have troubles, but its getting better, im researching the role of a good HOH. After our discussion about bringing a little one into this world she seems more submissive, i have to say that this lifestyle is great its a huge turn on to be dominant over my wife and i look forward to learning alot more.